Its a simple story of a guy who was looking for all, fame, money and girls. He found a girl who's father owns a company, and the father was willing to take him in as one of the "big shots". He got what he wanted.
However along the marriage with the girl, he was seduced by another girl. When he got the mistress pregnant, she kept ringing him and forcing him to divorce his wife.
He couldn't take it any longer, killed an old woman, her neighbour beside, stole the jewellry, and later killed the mistress to make it seemed like an armed robbery house break in.
He threw all the jewellry into the river to destroy the evidence. One of the ring happen to hit the railing and bounced off on the ground. Later another crime took place in that area, and the robber was found to have that ring with the initals of the old woman's name. WHAT LUCK!! WHAT PURE LUCK!! He escaped it!!!
There's more to the story then this, its a movie i fully recommand to watch. However if we were to put some of the marriages we've seen or perhaps personally encountered into a video clip, wouldn't it be somewhat similar?
Honestly, i discovered that most people didn't ever get into a marriage wanting to commit adultery. On that day of marriage, they really meant with all their hearts, when they mention those 2 precious words "I do". It is along the way, perhaps out of weakness that they gave in.
I often heard people, especially those who have gone through families where their parents found another outside partner, say "When i get married i will stay true to my wife all the way! I would not betray her, but love her till death do us part"
Perhaps with all sincerity of heart, they meant it, and i could see it in their eyes. But till the test really comes, when in marriage we start to discover that he is not the kind of person, or perhaps he/she has changed for the worse, had a quarrel for nights that goes unresolved, meet another girl/guy at the workplace, got along well, found out that he/she has fond feelings for you, at such situation who can still say the same?
I learnt that i must not be ignorant of my weakness in me.
The Question is what is love base on?
If love is base on feelings, it comes and goes, and people drop feelings for the opposite gender when put together for sometime.
If love is base on character ALONE, it would change because people change. And There is always someone with better character out there.
If love is base on physical appearace, for we both know fades. And there is always someone prettier out there.
Love is base on a CHOICE. We love because we choose to love. Once we choose to love dispite how we feel, the feeling will start fanning into flame for one another once again.
Whenever i'm walking alone, at the beach, or alone on the train, i don't see any fancy in seeing young couples together, romantic and loving. But when i catch a couple in their 50's, 60's 70's or 80's. I often stopped to watch. Because i know this couple has went through alot and where they are today is commandable. To stay together is one thing, to stay together in love dispite all the differences sure made them stronger then before.
